Verities & Balderdash

Places I've Lived Through the Years

A Visual History...The First 21 Years

The Early Years 

A TODAY PIC
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4106 North Ave., Silverton (1955)

1955-1956
Infancy. My parents were living in the apartment above the store when I was born. Though the store front faces Plainfield Rd., the apartment address is North Ave, since the entrance to the apartment is on the side of the building.

AS IT LOOKS NOW
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7004 Plainfield Road, Silverton (1955-1957)

THEN November 1955
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Plainfield Rd. Apartment

THEN - Christmas '56
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Plainfield Rd. Apartment

1955-1957
Here the infamous "chase scene" took place: me, running around the house being chased by my mom, laughing and giggling all the way, until Mom decided to stop chasing and wait for me to come on around. My fanny still hurts -- all the way back around the building!  Ha Ha!  By the way, I loved that monkey in the bottom right of the Christmas picture, and I remember many hours of rocking in my musical rocker.
 
This apartment is less than a block away from the one at the corner of North & Plainfield.  We lived here until my parents separated, then Mom and I moved to Schenck Ave. in Deer Park.

AS IT LOOKS NOW
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4322 Schenck Ave., Deer Park (1957-1963)

THEN - Easter '59
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Schenck Ave. Apartment

1957-1963
My earliest memories are of the basement apartment (bottom right). Mom and I shared the single bedroom. When I outgrew my crib, mom slept on the bottom bunk, and I on the top. It was while living in the basement apartment that went to visit my friend Diana Dodd, who lived two buildings away, and ran my arm through the glass of her apartment building door, nearly severing my arm.
 
At some point, when I was about 5 or 6 we moved to the 2nd floor apartment on the left. Mom and I still shared the single bedroom, but now the apartment was large enough we could have twin beds... and of course, my toy box. To this day I can still smell in my mind that "apartment building smell." While living in this apartment, mom met, and became engaged to, Dick Berling. We lived here until I was 8, when we moved to Oakwood.

Older Childhood & Youth

TODAY
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Oakwood Ave., Deer Park (1963-1964)

1963-1964
We moved here just prior to Mom's marriage to Dick Berling. We rented the house from Mr. Cooper, who lived just next door to the right of the house. Strange the memories one has of where he lives. I remember in the basement an old coal cellar which fascinated me, probably because it was closed off with just a small window to look inside. In the backyard, a locust tree, which stunk to high heavens when we cut it down or burned it in the fireplace. It was in this house that I got my first dog... Patty... which my cousins won at the Madeira Carnival.
 
I remember the glow of the garage light on the snow outside in the winter. In September after moving in, Mom and Dick were married. I still remember sheepishly asking him, before they were married, if I could call him "Dad". And I still remember how good I felt when he said, "Of course you can, Son."  In 1964 we bought the house on Moss Court, and moved our possessions by ourselves in what seemed like thousands of trips back and forth.

TODAY
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7725 Moss Court, Deer Park (1964-1976)

THEN 1963
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When We Moved In

THEN -1972
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After We Remodeled

1964-1976
It was here that I "grew up" and in this house I have my fondest memories. Of all the places I've lived this is probably my favorite. The house itself has evolved a great deal. It was white, with the stone facing extending up to the bottom of the bedroom windows and across the house. "It looks like a pair of bib overalls," my Uncle Ray said when he came to give a bid for aluminum siding. All but the stone facing in the porch was removed and avocado green aluminum siding (and black shutters) was installed. Since we've moved away, recent owners have changed the siding to gray, and put a massive wooden deck in the back yard. (It looked nicer when we owned it! <wink>)
 
I could fill volumes with memories of this place, so I'll try to be as selective as possible!
 
Television Memories: Our first color TV. Favorite TV shows growing up: COMBAT!; Dragnet; Mission Impossible; Get Smart; Man from U.N.C.L.E; Batman; Star Trek; Sonny & Cher; Laugh-In. (The latter two probably as much because of hormones as for entertainment! haha) After school it was Bob Shreve, and old Bowery Boys movies.
 
Mr. Wilson: Our somewhat friendly "ghost." There were strange things which happened in this house, which we attributed to Mr. Wilson (a former owner of the house who supposed died there.) Music playing but no radio or TV on. Things disappearing then reappearing after we searched frantically for them. Strange noises (probably from the pipes) in my closet. Strange shiny spots that seemed to move from night to night on the ceiling. But the most terrifying of all was the loud footsteps one night, which seemed to come from the porch roof in front of my mom's bedroom. I lost my climbing tree over that. But the police arrived in matter of minutes, and then the noise stopped. but no evidence could be found of any person.
 
Best Friends: Debbie Roeder & Billy Hitchcock (both of whom lived on Moss) were my best friends during my late childhood/early teen years. until with both I had a falling out. Though we would reconcile, we never regained that same spark of friendship we had before. Steve Buschhaus became my life-long best friend through Scouts during this time.
 
Greatest Grief: It was in 1966, just two years after we moved into the house that my step-father, Dick Berling died of a massive heart-attack. Though Mom would marry again, Dick is the one I look to as my Dad. He had but three years in my life, yet his influence has lasted a lifetime.
 
Education: While living in this house I graduated from Deer Park High School, and entered college at Oral Roberts University. Originally I had planned to attend the University of Utah to pursue a career in pharmacy, but switched to ORU when I felt the call into ministry.
 
Antics: Let's see: how about the 3 foot deep hole I dug in the backyard thinking I could eventually reach China? (Didn't take long to grow bored with that endeavor!)
 
Or jumping off the roof of the garage?
 
Or chopping down the mulberry tree and just barely missing the neighbor's garage when it fell. (Honestly, I was very well-intentioned, wanting to help out my Mom who was intending to take the tree down anyway. Somehow my Mom and the neighbor weren't so convinced of my good intentions.) 
 
Or the night Billy and I got drunk while sleeping out in the backyard? He had a friend who had a friend who got us a 5th of Whiskey.  It was a lot of fun... until the next morning.
 
Or my friend Paul Koch and I feeding Patty half a bag of Halloween candy? She really loved it! And Paul and I had her doing all kinds of neat tricks. Then she got sick on the carpet. Here. And there. And over there. And in that spot. And here again. And there again. And that night Mom had a group of ladies coming over to the house. And she had just had the carpets cleaned a few days before.
 
Or climbing the old pine tree that stood at the corner of our front porch? I loved climbing that tree to the very top where I could feel it swaying in the wind. The view was wonderful from up there! But thanks to Mr. Wilson the tree came down one day. But I still feel the thrill of those climbs.
 
I better stop. I'm getting carried away with recollections. But I think you get the idea of why this was my favorite home.  We lived here until after my Junior year of college. I'd been living in Tulsa most of the year for 3 years. But during my Junior year, Mom and step-father Art Schille, built a new home on the western side of Cincinnati. So when I came home in 1976 for the summer it was to a new house.

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Pickway Ave,, Western Hills (1976-1978)

 
 
 
 
 
 
To Be Continued...

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